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    Wednesday, October 26, 2005

    How to Have a Friendly Divorce (Part 2 of 2)

    by Stepanie Munson

    A short list of cardinal rules to be observed by Mom and Dad will improve everyone's adjustment to a reconfigured life.

    1) Tell your children about the divorce together.

    2) Assure them that neither of you will ever stop loving them.

    3) Answer any questions they may ask. Yes, life will be different, but it won't be worse because your kids' needs will continue to be met by both parents.

    4) Each partner must agree never to bad-mouth the other.

    5) Honor visitation privileges, and be supportive of the other parent's time with the children.

    6) Don't send messages to one another through the children. Continue to communicate if only in a polite, perfunctory way.

    7) Both parents must expect and allow their children to vent, express feelings and opinions, and simply to talk.

    8) Both parents should agree to abide by the same 'rules of the house' where the children are concerned (bedtime, whether junk food is permitted, types of movies allowed, etc.), so the kids don't play one parent against the other and to maintain as much consistency in the child's routine as possible.

    But have you tried marriage counseling? How about pastoral counseling, where you explore the spiritual aspects of making a mutual lifelong vow to one another? Sometimes a separation is healthier for everyone, so simmering tempers can cool down. But what happens then?

    Leave no stone unturned before ending up in divorce court. It's hard on everyone -- psychologically, financially, socially, you name it. And it's especially hard on the kids.

    About the Author: Stephanie edits a twice-monthly HTML ezine, Tidbits from the Pantry, that is currently sent to more than 11,000 opt-in subscribers. She recently retired after 40 years in the field of human services, and offers a free evaluation of a life problem to any subscriber by email.

    This blog was set up by Denise Michaels. To see more blogs by Denise go to http://www.GreatIdeasForWomenOver40.com Michaels is author of the myth-shattering book, "Testosterone-Free Marketing" for women business owners. Go to http://www.MarketingForHer.com and click on "Get the Book!"


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