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Surviving Life After Divorce (Part 2 of 3)
By Sharon Jacobson
4. Accept that the relationship is over. When you're living alone and your partner has moved on, it should be easy to accept that it's over. Unfortunately, this is something that a lot of women have problems with. You may find yourself making excuses to visit him by forgetting things at his place or needing to discuss something trivial regarding the children. Don't crowd him. Talk to him when you need to, visit if you must. Be polite, keep your distance emotionally, and accept that you now lead separate lives. The sooner you accept this, the sooner you will be able to find happiness again.
5. Don't live in the past. No doubt you've got some great memories from your time together, you would never have stayed together as long as you did if there were never any good times. Remember them by all means, but don't dwell on them. If you find yourself wishing that everything could be "like that" again, give yourself a mental slap and remind yourself that there are some fantastic moments waiting for you in the future and that the past is nothing but a memory. You can learn from it but you can't change it or return to it. It's over. Gone. The future is what you should be thinking about now!
6. Don't drown yourself in guilt. You've probably said a few things that you didn't mean and now regret but you can't change that now. By all means apologise to your ex if it'll make you feel better, but don't expect your apology to change anything. Forgive yourself and learn from your mistakes.
7. Re-discover yourself! How much of yourself did you give up during your relationship? Did you find yourself bending over backwards to satisfy your partner? Now is the time to start living for you! Doing the things that make YOU happy will increase your self-confidence. Get a new hair-cut, re-arrange the furniture, enrol on a course. Do anything you like, but do it for YOU.
(Please come back and visit this blog again to read part 3 of this article.)
About The Author: Sharon is a freelance writer living in South Cheshire, England. Having been through both a divorce and the breakdown of a long-term relationship, she understands what's involved in the aftermath. To contact Sharon or to learn more about her work, please visit http://www.sharon-jacobsen.co.uk
This blog is provided by Denise Michaels. To see more blogs by Denise go to http://www.GreatIdeasForWomenOver40.com Michaels is author of the myth-shattering book, "Testosterone-Free Marketing" for women business owners. Go to http://www.MarketingForHer.com and click on "Get the Book!"
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